A Confession-
I am an environmentalist but… I drive a full sized pick up named Shelly. Usually somewhere in the realm of 500km/week.
For anyone who’s taken some base level psychology you probably already have an understanding of Cognitive Dissonance, but let’s refresh:
Cognitive Dissonance explains the uncomfortable feeling when our brains try to crash two opposing views or values together into the one true path. Now opposing views/values are nothing new – I mean I used to think mashed potatoes was the best way to eat potatoes possible – and then I found brown butter smashed hash browns and I had to do some really deep reflection. The problem arises in the mental gymnastics our brains go through to arrive at a new normal.
There are a few standard paths so let’s illustrate with an example:
You can see the dissonance… right
Now I have a few options
OK, OK – but why does this matter. At the risk of getting way too heavy too fast lets look at the scenario of climate change.
This is where you see the mental gymnastics start, so test subject A might relieve his dissonance with the following thoughts:
Sounds familiar hey? In case it seems like this problem is too easy to solve let’s add a human element.
Andrew (formerly known as Test Subject A) lives at the bend in the river, next to his favourite fishing hole. The calming rush of the river is the lullaby that helps put his children to bed at night. He and his wife, Amanda, moved to their quaint river home to help calm their eldest child’s crippling anxiety. Oh, and the home itself, Andrew built it with his late father, it now serves as a beautiful reminder of the relationship between father and son. Andrew and Amanda own a landscape company, the truck is how they transport their tools and supplies to their various work sites, earning the money they need to feed their family and provide their children with the life they desire.
Given the additional context, how would you proceed? If you move, you’re giving up the things you love, the river, the home you built with your hands, the memories with your father, the well being of your child. If you give up your truck you can no longer do your job properly, which is how you feed your kids. That said, if you keep driving your truck you kids might not have a planet to live on, and the river might flood unexpectedly and take out your house. This is where the real conundrums show up, what should Andrew do at this point?
Now personally, I’m a big fan of option 3, chose something to add to the scenario that helps fit what you used to believe with what you now know. This option allows you to stretch your creativity and find something that fits your lifestyle. In this instance, carpooling doesn’t make sense, unless Andrew’s neighbour works for the landscape company, but maybe he could start growing his own garden and eating more of the fish he catches himself. A different way to decrease his carbon footprint.
That said, I want everyone to appreciate that each individual will be different. Some people will simply choose to ignore the issue all together. There is no right answer and as we all work together to solve the big complex problems, we all face, understanding why people behave the way they do is a crucial step to finding lasting solutions.
Try to remember a time where you experienced Cognitive Dissonance. It might be hard to recognize at first, your brain is sneaky and tries to hide it from you when it can. When you’ve found an example review how you responded with fresh understanding, did you ignore, accept, excuse or add? Why do you think you chose that particular path?
Want to share your experience? I'd love to here from you.
Stay tuned for Chapter 2, embracing the dissonance where I will dive into the process of making changes little steps at a time.